I'm honestly not really sure why this isn't listed as parody or comedy. It's pretty clear that the anime is parodying some tropes, though some they're playing pretty straight. At the very least, a lot of this is very clearly supposed to be very tongue-in-cheek. You're not supposed to take it for face value or don't take the world as seriously as one might take a typical fantasy. It has my type of humor where you think it's going straight only for someone to drop in the comedy suddenly. Honestly, it's the way I write my comedy, so I'm very content with it, but I know folks don't like it too much. It can't be helped.
Reanette kinda cute though. I was thinking a bit about another anime that ended with a romance involving an MC who wasn't actively pursuing the female love interest. I didn't like it too much because there wasn't exactly a real reason for the MC not to be down with the relationship when the female love interest was VERY MUCH willing. I mean, the MC didn't really protest but just kinda stayed neutral until something happened to kinda force the pairing together. It was sloppy and uninteresting.
Here, I at least very much buy the idea that Rick finds himself too old for this woman that he's clearly interested in. Apparently, she is 19 years old, so their relationship would be perfectly legal, however this is apparently taboo.
I had a classmate telling me about her 20 year old cousin who was dating a 30-something year old man and had been doing so for about a year or so, and everyone in class considered such an age gap to be disgusting. They felt anyone in their 30's going for someone who is "still developing" or who is getting right out of the developing stage is a creep. Personally, though I feel it's important for the younger in the relationship to make sure they're not being taken advantage of or that the older of the relationship isn't just trying to find someone to control, I don't exactly find a relationship between two consenting adults to be disgusting on its own. As someone who fought hard for people's right to marry the same sex and to normalize the idea that consenting adults should be able to do whatever the f*** they want as long as no one is being harmed, I would be a huge hypocrite to and cannot fathom the idea of trying to nitpick and police every relationship and every detail of every relationship even if they're legal and consensual. Making oneself aware of "what ifs" is one thing, but policing relationships based on the idea of "what ifs" is just too much. That was just not the business of my classmates, in my opinion. All that being said, the relationship between Rick and Reanette does have a hurdle and I do actually appreciate that they have Rick have his own hesitations about it. I don't doubt that they'll eventually become closer, but I'm glad there's something there to watch them try to overcome. Something I can understand as well.
Additionally, I do like that Rick's hesitation on everything seems to be his doubts because of his age. I'm not sure how old the typical person watching this is, but yeah... the older you get, the more at least I find people thinking, "Man, I might be too old for this". And it's honestly sad. Straight up depressing. I'm really glad that Rick is going for what he wants to do and I think it's really good that they kept his hesitation instead of having a character who has thoughts similar to "I'm 32! So what??" because while it's still inspiring, well... it's the difference between having a character you want to aspire to be like versus having a character you want to root for and maybe grow alongside. I think for this type of story, where there's a lot of room for character development, it's probably better to go the route of watching the main character gain that confidence. We'll be able to see Rick grow in this aspect of his relationships, skills, and so on. I hope. I mean, in Rick's interactions with Links, and the way the story portrays their reactions to what others around them think about their dreams, I think they will at least be acknowledging some of that in a way that's more than just "hee hee har har, old men who missed the train as youths! What funny stuff can we make these old guys do?"-- because they already have. It's just more about how much more growth will happen and in what ways. |